Wearing Clothes That Don’t “Go” Together
There is a quiet rule embedded deep in how we are taught to dress: things must “go” together. Colors should…
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My Style Has No Core, And I Like It That Way
There is a growing expectation that personal style should have a center. A core. Something definable, repeatable, and easily summarized.…
How to Dress for No One
Most advice about clothing assumes an audience. Dress to impress. Dress to be taken seriously. Dress to attract, signal, soften,…
No, This Outfit Doesn’t Mean I’m in a Phase
There is a familiar assumption that follows certain clothes the moment they appear. A sharper silhouette, a darker palette, an…
How to Build a Wardrobe Without Pinterest Boards
Building a wardrobe that reflects personal style and is functional can be a daunting task, especially when it seems like…
Why I Stopped Caring About Dressing “Flattering”
For years, I was obsessed with dressing in a way that was deemed “flattering.” It felt like a never-ending pursuit…
Wearing Chaos: Outfits That Break All the “Rules”
Fashion is often seen as a way to express identity, but somewhere along the way, it became another rulebook. Do’s…